Sun 4 Apr 2010
The Longest Hour
Posted by kenneth under Tangents
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Snausages was one of the best friends I’ve ever had.
She had a fun name, which was given to her by a neighbor, before my time. She was from the wrong side of the tracks. When she moved in with me she rose to the occasion. I wouldn’t allow her to demand attention of me, then swat at me when I touched her anywhere below her head—water in a spray bottle works wonders with cats. She became one of the most loving animals I’ve ever known. She was adorable of course, and she tolerated my photographic experiments. She was a good subject.
About 18 months ago, she fell from the internal balcony of our townhouse condo, breaking her pelvis in two locations. She was up and ready to walk in 2 weeks. She later went through a number of intense health issues, only to bounce back into perfect friend mode. She was always around when I was sick, and she loved to sleep in my lap for hours on end, preferably in whatever position was most uncomfortable for me.
As many of those health issues slowly wore her down, in the last few weeks she had been on the decline. On Saturday, we had to let her go. It’s not the first time, and it won’t be the last, but that familiar vacuum is very present today. “The Longest Hour” is that last hour that we had with her before our vet appointment. It was absolutely terrible, but I’m happy for every second of it. She fell asleep on my chest for the last time.
You may wonder why I’m posting this here. Beyond sharing our grief in this now-familiar forum, she was one of the original reasons for my finally taking the plunge into woodworking. After her fall she had trouble getting into the bed with us, so I planned to make a bench that she could use to step up. I made a tiny table for food bowls after she suddenly went blind due to hypertension (a condition from which she recovered); I made a little ottoman/step for her favorite chair because she couldn’t handle the jump by herself; I made a ramp for her litter box as she began having trouble getting over the edge.
This is an example of the many things that affect our lives in unexpected ways—of how a pet can become an unforeseen source of inspiration, or necessity. As well, woodworking improved her life just as it has improved mine. I might go so far as to say that my “hobby” helped to keep her with us for just a little while longer.
So thank you, Snausages, for everything. We love you and we miss you terribly. I will think of you fondly when I am building things, and I can’t thank you enough for that.
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Well, what can I say after reading your story? The way we acquire a passion for woodworking can come from many different directions. This one happened to be a rather poignant one. May you have many happy memories of snausages as you move on in your woodworking endeavors.
Well said, sweetie. I know how very much “Nan” meant to you and to Stacey. She meant a lot to me, as well. It will be hard when I visit in a couple of weeks to not see that precious little face. Thank you for telling her story so sweetly.
Gran Bev
Kenneth,
I’m sorry for your loss. We lost our dog 2 weeks before moving about 2 years ago, and the new house still doesn’t feel like home without him.
I hope you woodwork continues to make him proud.
Thanks everyone. It has been very difficult but we’ll manage. Sorry about your dog Dyami.
Our pets have always been our kids, so we are especially affected by this.
I think I’ll get going with some projects soon, to help me clear my head.
Kenneth,
I just added your blog to my site at UnpluggedShop.com. When you post new articles, within about two hours, the headline from the RSS feed will appear on my front page so my readers can click over to your site and catch the latest.
Let me know if you ever have any questions or comments. I think a lot of my readers will really enjoy your blog.
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Thanks,
Luke
Thanks Luke! I’ll definitely add you to the links.
I’ve just stumbled on this and I’m crying.
We lost our beloved “Grems” a week after you lost Sausages. She’d been with us for all of the 16½ years we’ve lived here and died before we could get her to the vet. Without her, the house is empty and my bare feet (as I sit at the computer) cold.
Thank you for letting me share our loss.
I’m very sorry to hear about Grems.
When we lost our first cat, this book was a big help to my wife, and has been recommended by many friends and vets. Hang in there, Ian.
I came here via a link of of pop wood.
Sorry to hear about your cat. I had a rescued kitten back in England that used to hang around me like flies on poo. All of a sudden it stopped climbing up my leg and I took her to the vet. The vet said she had leukaemia and I had to have her put down.
I’ve never had a pet since as I can’t stand knowing that I’ll have to go through that again.
Thanks Patrick. I’m sorry about your kitty.
It’s definitely tough, but I think I’ll always have cats. They’re just too much fun, but sometimes you have to let things that you love go. It’s better than an empty house, imo.